Approach Anxiety

Learn How to Talk to Woman and Overcome your Fear
  1. The first thing you should ALWAYS do when she comes over to your place

    Typically at some point, maybe a second, third or fourth date, I’ll invite her to come over to my place. She knows what will likely happen there: Sex. And if she’s coming over, that typically means she’s thinking about sleeping with you. The big question is: what do you do when she comes over? What
  2. Wait for Something Better

    I don’t have sex very much. That’s the honest truth. As a guy who teaches men how to meet women, it may not be what you expect to hear from me. Or what you want to hear. You might think that as a certification of my skill with women, I’d be posting about all my
  3. How Female Attraction to Status Developed Human Intelligence

    Jordan Peterson discusses how female choice led to the evolution of greatness in humankind: Peterson says: Chimpanzee females are non-discriminant maters. They will mate with any male. When they go into heat, which human females don’t, then any male is allowed access. The dominant males chase the subordinate males away. So the dominant males are
  4. The All-or-Nothing Mentality Kills Your Chances with Women

    You’re sitting in the park. You see a hot girl walk past. She’s amazing. You savor the view. Then the thought hits you: Wait. I could actually talk with her. Do you approach her or don’t you approach her? This question in itself is a problem. It sets up a binary: Either / Or. Either
  5. Never Get Angry at Women

    “Are you mad?” she asks me. “Dogs get mad. People get angry,” I tell her. “And no, I’m not angry.” It’s true. I rarely ever get angry at women, particularly in the first few months of a relationship. If she does something I don’t like, I don’t get angry. In fact, I sometimes like it.
  6. Why It’s Hard to Meet Quality Women Online

    I recently asked one of the women I’m dating, a hot 27-year-old, whether she would ever do online dating. “I hope it never comes to that,” she responded. I have experimented with online dating for years. I had an extremely well-written profile, photos that I tested for maximum attractiveness, and a whole set of openers
  7. How Many Women I Approach and My Success Rate

    A simple fact about meeting women that everyone knows to be true but no one talks about: This is a numbers game. The more times you can get up to bat, the more likely you are to get a hit. If you approach ten women every day for a month, you are far more likely
  8. How To Ensure Success When You Set Goals

    “Your eyes are bigger than your stomach,” my mother would say to me as a child when I asked for a double serving of macaroni and cheese. “You’ll never be able to finish that.” She knew me better than I knew myself. I loved macaroni and cheese so I always asked for more but then
  9. Why I Made Getting Past Approach Anxiety My Life’s Mission

    Twelve years old. 5th grade. I picked a fight with the school bully. He accepted. “After school. I’m gonna kick your ass!” he said. When the 3 o’clock bell rang, the entire class walked to a backyard off of school property. I could feel my arms getting numb. I was paralyzed. Inhibited. I’d never felt
  10. Focus on the Physical to get Past Approach Anxiety

    This is one of my biggest secrets to getting past approach anxiety. To understand the beginning–how getting physical can help you start conversations with women–let’s look at the end game. In this video, Cory Skyy, a fantastic natural, talks about how to make a move on a girl when she’s at your place. In and